Since I started offering tantric erotic massage around five
years ago now, there has been a proliferation of glossy ads on the internet
offering what professes to be tantric massage, but I wonder how many of these
are offering a genuine experience. How many are providing a straightforward
massage with a quick hand job at the end, and how many are offering other
sexual services that have little to do with tantra and the spiritual? I wonder
because I used to offer such services myself, and because I know that what I do
now is very different from what I used to do when I was escorting.
So what is tantric massage, and what might a new client
expect? Well Tantra, in its purest form, goes back to at least the 8th
century. In its original form it is a
mystical pathway, an accumulation of practices that have in common extensive
use of ritual and of psycho-experiential techniques such as yoga,
visualisation, and meditation. In its modern form, Tantra has a slightly
different meaning, referring to both new age and modern western interpretations
of traditional Tantra, brought forward by pioneers of the so-called Neo-tantra
since the 1970s. These teachings consider sex as a sacred act which is capable
of elevating its participants to a higher spiritual plane. They all show how
sexual energy can be transformed into ecstatic experiences. To reach this aim,
they offer a wide range of techniques, containing elements originating from
fields such as bodywork, breath work, yoga, and meditation.
In short tantra is,
or can be, the perfect fusion of spirituality and sexual energy. Recipients of
tantric massage have been known to have full body orgasms without actually
ejaculating (ejaculation and orgasm are not the same thing, though one usually
accompanies the other). This is when each of the seven chakras in our body
vibrates at the same time, and can only happen when the recipient totally
commits to the experience they are being offered, not as easy as it sounds.
I can’t of course guarantee that this will happen to every
single one of my clients, as, in essence, I act as a facilitator, but I can
guarantee that you will feel nurtured, healed and rejuvenated. I create the environment
and setting in which such circumstances are possible.
For this reason, I only work from home, because atmosphere
is extremely important, and that means a nurturing space that the client can
walk into. I like to make sure that the room is properly prepared; warm enough
to feel comfortable naked, with soft candlelight and my choice of music playing
(music is a very important part of the massage).
Preparing the client for what is to follow is also very
important, so you will not immediately be asked to take your clothes off and
get on the table. We will have a brief chat about what and what not to expect.
I will check on your personal boundaries, and get a better picture of what you
are looking for. We will then, whilst still clothed, do a few simple breathing
exercises together, which help to relax both of us, and also create a
connection between us. We then undress each other before I invite you to get
onto the massage table. From now on the key is to allow yourself to be taken care of. Nothing is expected of you, and
though you may touch and hold me, you are not expected to reciprocate in any
way. Just lie back and let me take care of you. Give in to the sensation of
touch, wherever that touch may be. It is incredible how even the simple touch
of hand on arm can have an erotic charge.
For premium customers I also offer digital internal prostate
massage, which, aside from being very pleasurable, helps keep the prostate
healthy and can help prevent prostate cancer.
So, yes, there is a world of difference between authentic
tantric massage, and what many out there are offering. In the words of Joseph
Kramer of Body Electric,
"The difference
between a hand job and Taoist Erotic Massage is the difference between banging
on a piano or playing Mozart."
Come and experience Mozart. More details on my website http://www.sensualself.co.uk.
You can also see some of my client testimonials on Rentmasseur and at http://www.masseurfinder.com/gregmitchell.
If you’d like to check out a movie of me giving a tantric
massage then try the Sensual Massage
Movies website.
